HS vs. College vs. Pro Game.

I'm talkin about with the ladies of course. I have noticed over the course of my career (one which has had its ups, but mainly downs) that like in sports, your game with the ladies has to evolve as well in order to keep up with the Joneses.

In high school, people are all stuck on looks and nothing more than that. Anyone who got themselves in relationships at the time was because it was purely physical and nothing more than that. You rarely seen a dude or chick that was a 3 with someone who was like an 8 or 9. People were with people of similar stature as well. You couldn't really spit much in the way of game unless you had the looks to go along with this game and so the "blue-chip prospects" if you will dominated the scene. They never had to try hard to get the pussy because it always came to them. Meanwhile for young fellas like DK, it was a struggle to see playing time with them and stuck to our own level (which as you get older really are hidden gems in the rough).

When you get to college though- the playing field evens out quite a bit. The "blue-chip prospects" will still get theirs...but there's no longer that wide gap between the hot shit and the average mofo. A huge reason for this is especially if you live on campussy...you finally have the freedom to have whatever you like whenever you damn well please. Inhibitions are lowered by more consumption of weed and alcohol, as well as just plain ol' havin a good fuckin time. It becomes a free for all...you usually tend to do the damn thing with people on your level still...but there is a much higher probability of havin that glorious upset victory (nabbin a 9-10) or that upset loss (nabbin a 3). It always helps when you live on campus because it's that much easier. For those that have lived on campus or live on campus- you know what I'm talkin about. I did NOT live on campus in college and was deprived of much of this. Who knows, it might have been for the better, since not much in the way of game is needed in college to get your desired effect...but you still need some. You gotta be able to talk up a good enough game at a party to make yourself sound interestin, and even inebriated the best way inside a girl's pants is gettin inside her brain ha. But it's definitely frustrating, because you hear of all these people braggin about how much poon they got/are getting and while the numbers are most likely inflated...it's still likely to be pretty true. As you continue in college and gain more experience...you see the younger pack come in and with your experience, it becomes that much easy to prey on them...almost too easy at times. Sometimes it's like a UNC vs. say NJIT college bball game- don't even bring your A game and still get some, usin your D- game will be effective enough to still cruise to victory. Once you leave those comfy confines though and hit the post-college life tho...

Since I never really lived on campussy (except for a couple of summers), unless a girl brought me back to her place (which is rare)...then my chances of sealing the deal would be slim to none. So I had resorted to being a makeout fiend. But this is neither here nor there.

In the real world, you're not gonna find girls comin up to you as they would be doin in college (the only time which they do). You're gonna have to be the aggressor and you're gonna have to use your game. And a good amount of it...just to get the number if you're lucky. There are cockblocks in every realm and while in HS and in College they're not that serious because you always have other options open to you easily, in the real world if you get cockblocked, that's usually your only option of the night- you're done (depending on time of night). This usually means you have to buy a drink to keep her interest and act quickly- because you're not the only person she wants to deal with...she came out to have a good time with her friends and so did you. Be too clingy and it's game over, unless you get the signs otherwise. Not be assertive, and it's game over. The margin for error in the real world is hella slim. Fortunately for me I've found it easier in this realm since I in essence went from HS straight to the pros ha.

The problem is (and I'm sure I've written this before)...getting the number is one thing. But what to do with it is another. Sometimes you'll get the number kinda as a reward for keepin her company...but she ain't gonna holla back if you hit her up because you didn't pique her interest like that. Sometimes you're just afraid of rejection. Sometimes you'll get past that step but then freeze. These are lessons you don't really worry about in HS or College but in the Pros is almost every time you go out. Women get older, wiser and aren't lookin for the quick fix anymore (most of the time anyway).

And so on.